By Lynn Venhaus A little history from this day, May 23: On this date in 1959, the show “Wrestling at the Chase” made its debut on KPLR (Ch. 11); it ran for 24 years.
In 1934, a law enforcement posse ambushed and killed Depression gangsters Bonnie and Clyde in Gibsland, Louisiana, ending a two-year crime spree that left 12 dead.
In 1980, Stanley Kubrick’s “The Shining” opened. In 1969, The Who released “Tommy,” the first rock opera. In 2010, ABC drama “Lost” aired its finale after six seasons.
And in 2013, Charlie Venhaus was declared in complete remission from his rare, aggressive, t-cell, non-Hodgkins’s lymphoma after nearly seven months from diagnosis, then treatment with both chemotherapy and radiation. Cancer free! And it has not come back.
What a smile! May 23, 2013. Charlie Venhaus cancer-free!
Can I get a Hallelujah? It was brutal, and I felt helpless, but his strength, everyone’s support and the incredible health care teams lifted us through a very dark time.
It’s always a good day to remember this milestone, even if it’s very late. Always must mark today in family history because it means a lot, and with each advancing year, its meaning is deeply felt. What a journey it has been.
We are forever grateful to family, (Venhauses and Zipfels, and more), his co-workers, my co-workers, colleagues, all our tribes, neighbors, acquaintances, Charlie’s Brooklyn pals, Foley’s gang, his advertising company, old friends, new friends, classmates. It meant so very much.
No one fights alone, and he/we were blessed with so much love, prayers, and good mojo – angels among us. Of course, we dubbed you all “Charlie’s Angels.” And you were – and are.
Friends who accompanied him to doctor appointments, sat with him when he was too weak to do anything but lie in bed, who made meals, took him for a ride in the fresh spring air, called, came by, so many acts of generosity and concern. People who asked me how he was every time I saw them.
I realize not everyone is so fortunate, and the list of friends and relatives who’ve lost cancer battles gets longer every year. What a struggle so many have endured bravely. I thought telling our 70-year-old mom to let go in 2001 after her courageous battle with lung cancer would be the toughest time of our lives, but other challenges would be ahead.
I celebrate Charlie as a superhero and a fighter throughout his life — but I also must always recognize the superhero doctors and nurses – forever grateful for those staffs at Beth Israel Hospital in New York City and Siteman Cancer Center in St. Louis who took such good care of him. Everyone we encountered were truly compassionate, caring experts.
We started out very scared on this uncharted course in December 2012. Charlie called with the news on Dec. 3 that he wasn’t having outpatient surgery for polyps in his nose, that it was instead a malignant tumor. Charlie thought he had a sinus infection that wasn’t going away. A sharp ENT Dr. Madeleine Schaberg noticed something that wasn’t quite right — ordered a biopsy, and yep – cancer. Because of her early diagnosis, she helped save his life.
I traveled to NYC for his consulting doctor appointments — we saw six doctors in three days. I took many notes to share with his dad Bob Venhaus, calling him after each visit. When doctors in New York City tell you that they have never seen this cancer in a young white male, well then, you know you are in for one tough ride. He was 24.
According to the American Cancer Society, only 1 percent of people in their 20s get cancer (4 percent under 40 total!),
Charlie called it another bump in the road, and went through it with a ‘keep on keeping on’ attitude even when it was awful. Inspiring. He doesn’t like a lot of fanfare, but what a champ.
Nurse Practitioner Cathy Concert, left, and Dr. Kenneth Hu, at right. Cathy told us that it was so important that I was there, that Charlie had a lot of support. Attitude was also key.
They treated it very aggressively. He was among only 12 percent of lymphoma patients who get both chemo and radiation, and it flattened him, but wow, he fought back hard.
Radiation started in January 2013 at Beth Israel in NYC, 35 treatments. By Friday, Jan. 18, he was so debilitated, he would not be able to work. On Monday night, he called me, and it was clear he needed a caregiver, so I went to Brooklyn, stayed three weeks. At his doctor appointment with him, Dr. Hu had told him: “We’re really worried about you.” He had what appeared to be second degree burns in his throat, and thrush. He was so miserable. They upped his meds.
Then, his dad came to stay a week, and in March, Tim used his spring break week to take care of Charlie and be there for this first chemo treatment. He did not do well, for his body wasn’t ready for it.
The plan was three rounds of chemotherapy (each 3-day 8-hour infusions, followed by one day booster shot). After the one in NYC, and after Tim’s report of how infirmed he was, his dad and I talked about temporarily moving him home so we could have our families and his friends help. We coordinated a move between the doctors there and Siteman — NYC was on board with him being home and wanted Siteman to follow their treatment plan, as since this was the first time dealing with it, they basically were ‘guessing,’ and Siteman was fine with all of this. He came home March 28, and they were able to fit him in for the other two without too much delay.
When Dr. Nancy Bartlett (who told us they had only seen this kind in one young white male about a year before Charlie!) gave us the good news the afternoon of May 23, 2013, that became the best red-letter day ever. I am hopeful that because of Charlie’s case success, they could better treat others down the road.
Charlie had lost 34 pounds and all his hair. He returned to Brooklyn in June, went back to work as a media strategist weeks later, at first part-time, then eased back into a normal routine. His advertising company, PHD Media (a division of Omnicom) was absolutely wonderful to him).
He had wondered aloud if he would ever again get back to normal. But his healing was truly remarkable.
Doctors said that if it didn’t return within two years, he should be in the clear. We could finally breathe at the five-year “survivor” mark, and he ran in the NYC Marathon for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society on Nov. 4, 2018.
Charlie and his wife Maria after running the NYC Marathon Nov. 4, 2018.
Outstanding oncologists Dr. Kenneth Hu and Dr. Ilan Shapira kept a watchful eye on him at regular tests/check-ups in NYC, but now he’s no longer a patient. Dr. Hu was a lymphoma survivor when he was a young teen.
To see what he has overcome, and become, is truly a remarkable and wondrous thing. I marvel at our minds, bodies and spirit — the healing powers that are present. Early detection and good medical care are factors, too.
There is no rhyme or reason to life sometimes, and when it knocks you down, you must get back up. We don’t know how long we get, so we might as well live life to the fullest while we can. Every day is a gift. Charlie has embraced that attitude with gusto. He continues to be resilient and determined. We can never know what the future holds, but we can move on one day at a time with optimism, grace and humility. And be there for each other.
The outpouring of affection for my son and our family is very humbling. Please know it mattered, and we noticed. And if we can help anyone else with hope and healing, we are here for you. Let’s work on ending this Big-C. Too many loved ones suffer. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
#Neverevergiveup.
Tim, Charlie and I at The Washington Square Arch in the park in Greenwich Village — not to far from where Charlie went through his medical procedures at then Beth Israel Hospital nearly two years earlier.Ringing the bell at Siteman after the last chemo treatment first week of May 2013.Charlie during his 2009 summer internship at NBC. He would move to NYC in February 2011.Charlie on San Francisco trip in 2016.
Cover photo: Mother’s Day 2013, Giant City Water Tower in Makanda, Ill. Tim had just graduated from SIU-Carbondale the day before, and we went to the Lodge for Mother’s Day dinner. We climbed up the water tower afterwards.
Lynn (Zipfel) Venhaus has had a continuous byline in St. Louis metro region publications since 1978. She writes features and news for Belleville News-Democrat and contributes to St. Louis magazine and other publications.
She is a Rotten Tomatoes-approved film critic, currently reviews films for Webster-Kirkwood Times and KTRS Radio, covers entertainment for PopLifeSTL.com and co-hosts podcast PopLifeSTL.com…Presents.
She is a member of Critics Choice Association, where she serves on the women’s and marketing committees; Alliance of Women Film Journalists; and on the board of the St. Louis Film Critics Association. She is a founding and board member of the St. Louis Theater Circle.
She is retired from teaching journalism/media as an adjunct college instructor.
After a brief hiatus, we’re back with our round-up of people, places, and events in the St. Louis region, a tad behind in posting our September/summer swan song.
IN COMES COMPANY: Stephen Sondheim’s groundbreaking musical “Company” – the female-led revival that won the Tony in 2022, kicks off its 25-city national tour on Oct. 8 in Schenectady, N.Y., with the St. Louis stop Feb. 27-March 10 at the Fox Theatre.
Belleville native Ann Beyersdorfer, associate set designer for the Broadway revival, worked with production designer Bunny Christie, who won her fourth Olivier Award for the London production design. And she’s on the team that has been preparing the hilarious and sophisticated show for the road.
(Three-time Tony Award winner Jack Lane, co-founder and executive producer emeritus of Stages St. Louis, was one of the Broadway show’s co-producers.)
Ann was back in town this summer, as scenic designer for “Disney’s Beauty and the Beast” and “West Side Story” at The Muny, and I was fortunate to interview her then for the Belleville News-Democrat.
For a deeper dive into the mechanics of getting a Broadway show transferred to the road, read about her journey here on PopLifeSTL.com:
A winner of best set design of a play for “Afterglow” at the Los Angeles Drama Critics Circle Awards, she’ll be part of the team taking the production to London Oct. 17–Nov. 24, with an official opening Oct. 22.
And as an art director on the visual shorts for “Saturday Night Live,” hopefully you will be able to see more of her work when the show resumes on Oct. 14. You may have seen the elaborate “HBO Mario Kart Trailer” she worked on when Emmy-nominated Pedro Pascal hosted.
Cheers to Ann and the tour launch! (We’ll drink to that!). For more information, visit: https://companymusical.com/
Nichelle Lewis, Wayne Brady
BRAND NEW DAY: “The Wiz,” the 1974 super-soul musical adaptation of L. Frank Baum’s beloved children’s novel “The Wizard of Oz,” which was given a reworking for The Muny’s 2018 season, is Broadway-bound in 2024, with St. Louis-connected producers, but this new revival is touring first. Opening night was Sept. 23 at the Hippodrome Theatre in Baltimore, and the reviews were raves.
“The audience and the whole evening was full of joy and energy, extended applause, and standing ovations,” stated the Maryland Theatre Guide on Sept. 29. “Powerhouse performances and stunning choreography,” enthused the Baltimore Sun.
The first-ever revival will be easing down the road to 12 other cities, including Chicago (Nov. 28 – Dec. 10). For more information, visit: https://wizmusical.com/
The producing team of Kristin Caskey and Mike Isaacson (Muny artistic director and executive producer) and a long list of others, including Terry Schnuck, is behind this show. Caskey, now of the Ambassador Theatre Group, spent 20 years with Fox Theatricals. She and Isaacson produced the Tony-winning “Fun Home” in 2015 and this year’s Best Revival winner “Parade.”
Isaacson said they have been working on a revival for eight years, and plans are to mount another national tour after the Broadway limited engagement. In preparation for The Muny, he received permission from the original creators to make some changes. Amber Ruffin, recent Tony nominee for “Some Like It Hot,” wrote additional material – and had worked on the Muny script – from William F. Brown’s original book. You may know her as a writer on “Late Night with Seth Meyers,” as she frequently appears.
Isaacson revealed that in a terrific Broadway World interview with James Lindhorst, who also talked with producers Jack Lane, Mike Bosner and Terry Schnuck – heavy-hitters at this year’s Tonys (“& Juliet,” “Shucked” and “Parade”).
Schele Williams is helming this show, with Wayne Brady as The Wiz from Jan. 16 to Broadway engagement, and Alan Mingo Jr. in the title role Sept. 23 – Jan. 14, 2024, and newcomer Nichelle Lewis as Dorothy.
The original 1974 production, directed by Geoffrey Holder and choreographed by George Faison, won seven Tony Awards including Best Musical, and was adapted into a movie in 1978 starring Diana Ross, Richard Pryor, and Michael Jackson. NBC broadcast a live version in 2015, but a planned revival then did not materialize.
Colin, Jeanine
BRUSH WITH GREATNESS: Speaking of the musical “Fun Home,” composer Jeanine Tesori — the most honored and most prolific female theatrical composer in history, was in St. Louis this summer, and stopped in to visit with the local cast rehearing “Caroline, or Change,” produced by Fly North Theatricals.
To get the opportunity to talk with Tesori, who has written five Broadway musicals and received six Tony Award nominations, winning for “Fun Home” and the recent “Kimberly Akimbo,” was one of the best moments ever, according to music director Colin Healy.
Healy summed it up this way on Facebook: “She and Mike Isaacson (producer) offered such wonderful insight into the process of writing, building, and producing ‘Caroline, Or Change,’ validating what is already apparent when hearing the score: how much a labor of love and Herculean creative endeavor ‘Caroline’ was and continues to be… She spoke to us for over an hour and took questions from everyone.”
(Photo: Colin Healy and Jeanine Tesori)
NEW HORIZONS: All good wishes for theater and media folks moving on, changing directions and making the most of opportunities.
Bravo to Taylor Gruenloh, whose new musical “Cascade’s Fire,” a modern Antigone story co-written by Kyle Wernkel, will premiere Oct. 12 and run 13-15 and 19-21 in the Black Box Theatre at Missouri Science and Technology in Rolla, where he is on the Arts, Languages and Philosophy faculty. Taylor wrote the book and lyrics while Wernkel wrote the music.
Taylor recently stepped down as Creative Director at The Tesseract Theatre Company at the end of August, after their successful run of “Kinky Boots.” One of the most prolific and creative folks in town, I can’t wait to see what else he will accomplish.
Congratulations to Joe Gfaller, who has been managing director of Metro Theater Company since 2019, on becoming managing director of Clear Space Theatre Company, a 20-year-old regional theater in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. He’ll be leaving in mid-October. Jessie Youngblood, the current development director, will serve as interim managing director beginning Oct. 9. Always enjoyed working with Joe, starting with the Opera Theater of St. Louis in 2014. Joe has served Metro, St. Louis’s premiere professional theater for youth and families, well.
Best wishes to Julia Flood, Metro artistic director for the past 10 years, who has announced her retirement after the 51st season. Of Joe’s departure, she said: “Joe has had boundless energy and enthusiasm for the mission and work of Metro Theater Company. I feel lucky to have had the benefit of his partnership through the complexities of the pandemic times and wish him much success and happiness in his new venture.” (They both can be very proud of their endeavors). A free Fall Family Festival to celebrate MTC’s 50 years of service to the community will be held on Oct. 21 and 22. A toast in Gfaller’s honor will be held at that event on Sunday, Oct. 22 at 1 p.m.
Carol Daniel
Carol Daniel may have retired from one prominent longtime gig, but she is embarking on a fantastic journey. The award-winning St. Louis journalist, reporter, host, columnist, and author has joined Nine PBS as a Senior Producer and Host.
Daniel said she looks forward to telling the stories of her community in a new way — with a podcast about people making an impact here, and also produce interviews and stories that celebrate and showcase underrepresented voices for Nine PBS’s content flagship, Living St. Louis. Yes to this! I look forward to seeing her next chapter.
Daniel has more than 40 years of experience as a host on KMOX Radio, as well as work on Great Day St. Louis on KMOV/Channel 4, and a columnist for the St. Louis American. She’s been honored as a Living Legend by the National Association of Black Journalists–St. Louis, was recently inducted into the Lincoln University Alumni Hall of Fame, and was a 2022 inductee into the St. Louis Media Hall of Fame.
Longtime public relations and marketing maestros Eric Pugh and Dylan Stanley have departed our fair river city for beachier pastures. Last at the Muny, Eric is now promoting The Asolo Repertory Theatre in Sarasota, Fla., the largest Equity theatre in Florida, and the largest Repertory theatre in Southeastern U.S. Just wonderful to work with both, and I’m glad we had time together.
Dylan, who has moved to Los Angeles with his fiancé, Nicolas Valdez, who is embarking on a fellowship at USC, will keep us posted on his next challenge after giving us his all at Stifel Theatre and Enterprise Center (and performing in Tesseract Theatre Company’s triumphant “Kinky Boots.”
Best wishes to Lee Anne Mathews in her new role as Education and Artistic Director for the Fox Performing Arts Charitable Foundation! Before May, she was making things happen at Westport Playhouse.
Congratulations to Brian McKinley on his new role as Director of Education and Community Program at the Black Repertory Theatre of St. Louis.
HOMETOWNERS: Comedian-actor Cedric the Entertainer’s new book, crime caper “Flipping Boxcars,” fictionalizes his grandfather, Floyd “Babe” Boyce.
Jon Hamm is in two, not one, television series this fall. He joined the cast of “The Morning Show” for season 3, now streaming on Apple TV+, and will be in “Fargo,” season 5, which starts Nov. 21 on FX and Hulu.
Nicholas “Sifu” Alsup. Photo: Robert Voets/CBS
Best wishes to Nicholas “Sifu” Alsup of O’Fallon, Ill., who was chosen as one of 18 contestants on the 45th season of CBS’ “Survivor” that started Sept. 27.He is a larger-than-life personality, and I was able to interview him through permission with CBS. https://news.yahoo.com/o-fallon-gym-owner-one-120000863.html
CHEERS: Congratulations to New Jewish Theatre on their 25th anniversary as a regional professional theatre in St. Louis; and Gateway Center for Performing Arts school, and youth theater company, on their 10th anniversary in Webster Groves. A feature article by me will be in the Webster-Kirkwood Times soon.
OUT AND ABOUT: Two Colins in the ‘Lou news! Co-owners Colin Healy and Bradley Rohlf of Fly North Theatricals, have opened their new home and social hangout, The Greenfinch Theater and Dive, at 2525 South Jefferson Avenue (the old Way Out Club).. The bar is open every night from 5 p.m. to 1 a.m. You won’t want to miss Stool Pigeon Open Mic Comedy Night on Mondays and Drunk Voice Lessons karaoke with live piano accompaniment (and critiques) by Colin Healy on Wednesdays, plus Burlesque Bingo’s in the rotation too. They are also accepting reservations for their black box theater.
Colin Jost
SNL Head Writer Colin Jost was the Celebrity Guest Host at the Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital’s Illumination Gala on June 3 at The Ritz-Carlton, a major fundraising event for the Siteman Cancer Center. Not sure what he said about “The Square Beyond Compare” but Imo’s posted his photo. Since 2007, the event has raised more than $42 million to support research funds
MEMORY LANE: Last month in pop culture history.
Sept. 26, 1975: “The Rocky Horror Picture Show” opened in Westwood, Calif., and tanked at the box office, but later would become the definition of a cult classic, inspiring interactive screenings with toast, toilet paper and more.
If you attended midnight screenings in the late ‘70s at the Varsity Theatre in St. Louis (where Vintage Vinyl is now), you might have run in to a teenage Michael Stipe, future alt-rock band REM frontman, who is dressed as Frank-n-Furter here in this vintage newsclip on KSDK’s “Newsbeat.” He told the reporter: “We’re all normal, really.”
Why on earth was Stipe, now 63, in St. Louis then? His dad was in the Army, and they moved to several states during his childhood. In the late ‘70s, he lived in Collinsville, Ill., and attended high school there and went on to Southern Illinois University in Edwardsville.. Later, he would move to Athens, Ga., for college, and met record store clerk Peter Buck, which led to forming a band with Mike Mills and Bill Berry…and the rest is history..
Rocky Horror played midnights at the Varsity Theatre from April 1976 until Jan. 3, 1988 when it closed for good. It was one of the first 30 theatres in the U.S. to do so.
I was fortunate to interview Barry Bostwick (Brad in the movie) when he had been scheduled to appear at Wizard World in St. Louis, but had to cancel, and he graciously talked about making the movie by phone. True delight to talk with and write about — here’s my BND feature from 2017.
IN MEMORIAM: Frequent visitor to Gaslight Square with the infamous Compass players, RIP Alan Arkin (March 26, 1934 – June 29, 2023). Archival photo is at Crystal Palace with Anne Meara.
From William Roth, the founder and artistic director of St. Louis Actors’ Studio, who renovated The Gaslight Theatre in the Central West End, on Arkin:
“He made his off-Broadway debut in the late 1950s and joined the St Louis improvisational group the Compass Players in 1959. This led to a stint with the Chicago improv troupe Second City and his Broadway debut, in 1961, in the company’s show ‘From the Second City, which he co-wrote.’
Tony-winning actor Michael McGrath, whose last show was at the Muny this summer – he did a fine job as Mr. Mushnik in “Little Shop of Horrors,” passed away in his sleep Sept. 14 at his home in Bloomfield, N.J. He was 65. That wasn’t his first show in St. Louis – in 1990, he played John Adams in Theater Factory’s “1776.” He was first nominated for a Tony in “Spamalot,” and won for “Nice Work If You Can Get It,” playing a bootlegger, in 2012. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/15/theater/michael-mcgrath-dead.html
Maggie Ryan, founder of Insight Theatre and inspiration to many, who spent 36 years as an English teacher and director of theater at Nerinx Hall, died Sept. 10, at age 80, after a short battle with leukemia. She was a lovely woman to interact with and cared passionately about theater. Insight operated for 12 years, won several St. Louis Theater Circle Awards including a legendary “Death of a Salesman” directed by Wayne Loui and starring father-son duo John and Jason Contini. Unfortunately, Insight closed in 2020. https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/stltoday/name/margaret-ryan-obituary?id=53065958
Calvin Wilson, St. Louis Post-Dispatch movie and theater critic, died Aug. 29, from an undisclosed illness. He was 70. I worked with Calvin, both in the St. Louis Film Critics Association, and with the St. Louis Theater Circle, and much admired his writing skill. His insight and passion for the arts will be missed.
CALENDAR NOTES: John Cusack’s screening of “Say Anything,” originally scheduled for October 28 at Stifel Theatre, has been rescheduled for Saturday, March 30. All tickets for the Oct. 28 performance will be honored at the rescheduled date. The popular actor will follow the screening with a conversation regarding his career and the making of the film. Fans will get the opportunity to experience a moderated discussion, with John answering audience questions as well.
Me and Greta, Oct 1, 2022
SHAMELESSNAME-DROPPING: Before she had the biggest movie of the summer (“Barbie”!) and her second son in February, Greta Gerwig was pleasantly accommodating us press troops at the New York Film Festival 2022 (for “White Noise”). The accomplished actress-writer-director is exactly as she seems, a lovely person in person. I had to compliment her on the 2019 “Little Women,” and she said she had a great time working with the cast of that movie. Hopefully, we will be seeing her during the upcoming awards season. On Aug. 6, the film crossed the $1 billion mark worldwide, making her the first woman with sole director credit to have a movie make more than $1 billion.
(My film review: https://poplifestl.com/unexpected-unpredictable-barbie-is-an-irresistible-pop-o-culture/)
Our coda has been added for this issue:
RANDOM THOUGHTS: As you can probably tell, I enjoy waltzing down memory lane, and yes, I was one of the early attendees of “The Rocky Horror Picture Show” midnight showings at the Varsity Theatre in 1977, which was so much fun. If you are a lover of cosplay, I have spied folks in Barbie and Ken outfits at “Barbie” — my prediction for hottest Halloween costumes — and I hear from Abe Goldfarb, hilarious as Otho in the touring company of “Beetlejuice,” who was on the weekly PopLifeSTL.com podcast co-hosted by Carl “The Intern” Middleman and myself on Oct. 4, that there’s many folks dressing up at the shows. He’s excited that they’re here Oct. 13.
The St. Louis Blues open at home Oct. 12. Just once I’d like to buy a team T-shirt where the player I selected isn’t traded. (I bought an Alexander Pietrangelo one — with a C — before the playoffs in ’19 and a Ryan O’Reilly in 2022.)
Are we having the Daylight Savings Time ‘fall back’ happen this year or is it over? Anyone? I’m so confused.
Where in the world is Lynn this weekend? Judging the costume contest at the sensational annual Witches and Wizards Festival in O’Fallon, Ill., a really fun event
Lynn (Zipfel) Venhaus has had a continuous byline in St. Louis metro region publications since 1978. She writes features and news for Belleville News-Democrat and contributes to St. Louis magazine and other publications.
She is a Rotten Tomatoes-approved film critic, currently reviews films for Webster-Kirkwood Times and KTRS Radio, covers entertainment for PopLifeSTL.com and co-hosts podcast PopLifeSTL.com…Presents.
She is a member of Critics Choice Association, where she serves on the women’s and marketing committees; Alliance of Women Film Journalists; and on the board of the St. Louis Film Critics Association. She is a founding and board member of the St. Louis Theater Circle.
She is retired from teaching journalism/media as an adjunct college instructor.
